I'm so sorry, TheOutsider90 It must be very hard for you. I agree with what Osheedee has already wisely said. Perhaps you could try to have him checked for low testoreone levels or other medical problems. Is he stressed out at work? Perhaps you could work on this problem together. Have you tried couple counseling? Maybe that could help. You could learn new ways to deal with his lack of sexual activity. Hopefully he/she will be able to help you. I hope you'll both be able to find a solution. Many couples lose sexual interest after a while. You're definitely not alone in this. I hope things will get better soon for both of you. You deserve to have an active and healthy sex life. I'm here for you if you need to talk about it. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this