(((((((((((((( sky ))))))))))))))) you understand so well, don't you? you're well learned.

you made a very good point and it is my major problem right now. when you mentioned letting go...that's a form of "selves" care for me. it's mandatory that i do that daily to maintain. i haven't been able to do it even weekly. it's taking it's internal toll. you hit the nail on the head as to what would help. the problem is that there has been so much going on, even on my days off from little man, that i haven't been able to "let go" or "go inside". insiders are acting act and we're not doing well as a whole because of this. i need to make that one of my top priorities...somehow, someway.

as to trying to allow the one who takes on so much to come and deal...i'm waiting actually. i realize this does happen with me and when i'm stuck here to deal, i feel very trapped and overwhelmed.

i so agree as to creating a new adult! i believe that's been done entirely too much here. however, i don't think that's been done in the last several years, so i'm hoping it won't anymore. i don't know how i know that. i just suspect it, you might say.

you've hit the nail on the head all through your post. i need to figure out a way to implement these things and incorporate them back into my every day life. i was actually doing so well for years through "selves" maintenance. i have to get back on track.

again, ty and ty for hugs (((((((sky )))))))))

be safe and good wishes your way,

kd