hi all,
i am looking for some advice or ideas on how to deal with BP hubster. the issues in our marriage seem to be bigger than we can handle. even with a marriage therapist and a pdoc that we see regularly, he has what i call his GOD complex and shrugs off their advice for us. i feel like i'm fighting this battle alone and that he could care less if i stay or if i go. i try so hard not to take this personally because of the BP but i do often wonder if he truly wants to save our marriage and do the work it's gonna take to tackle our problems and begin to heal the past hurts and indiscretions.

any thoughts, ideas, or advice will be welcomed for i'm at my wits end.

chiwawa mom