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Originally Posted by Nowinners
Was this after he went to work all day? Perhaps ask him to take you to dinner or lunch (on the weekend?) then where something sexy, tell him about your lingerie/lack of underware before/during the dinner. Tell him how much you need it ASAP. If he doesn't--keep asking. Send sexy texts. Embarrass yourself. Force yourself to be more up front than you normally are. He will appreciate that you tried.
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I know some guys might like that sort of thing but honestly, that would have freaked me out when I was going through this stuff, my wife actually offered to try this sort of thing and my first partner just did it but in both cases I just felt guiltier that they were having to do this for me.
What helped me most in a subsequent relationship, after a lot of counselling/therapy, was tantra and taking things really slow, getting used to being touched (which took a lot of work and still does) and my own sexual needs and learning how to retuning into my partner's.