IMO, saying something like, "i'm an expert in this subject, and you are definitely being 'subjected'" - unless it is said with tongue-in-cheek OR some acknowledgement that one is never ENTIRELY cured and therefore may still be sensitive to discussions on the given subject (that is, pointing one finger means three are pointing back at you) - is prescriptive and unsupportive.

But IME, many people dont read past my opening statement to my "supporting" excuses and just yell at me for being unsupportive, so that definitely hinders me from responding at all. So, not sure yet how to work around that!