Well, for me it was "you are too young to boys" changing overnight to "WHY DON'T YOU HAVE A BOY?"
Seriously it was a shame to have a boyfriend "so young" until it was a shame not having one....
It did not help my father died when I was 10 and there was a string of relationships that failed for one reason or another (not wanting to vacation in Netherlands, voting for different party, being a jealous prick, being a former agent of the communist party during the cold war times...). I do not blame my mom breaking up with the jealous prick or the commie.... but... if vacationing in Netherlands versus in Austria was such big thing at one point... she should understand my pickiness and unwillingness to give up things for me, right?