Yeah, I'd just like to name that I struggle with the same thing. I don't have a relationship right now but I spend what I think is too much money on webcam sex chats. It's hard to quit. But I also know I cannot continue this way. I liked what someone else said about having a problem with intimacy though. I guess I look for the same thing in webcam sex chats and it's nowhere to be found there. So if anyone has any advice regarding that, it would be helpful to me, too.