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Ugh, now she texted me now asking if I have gotten over being offended. She doesn’t realize that this goes way beyond just how she made me feel with those comments.
I mean those were bad enough. If I had continued being friends with her, I would always be worried that I might be bothering her with my petty problems. And I’m sure she’d still expect me to listen to her problems for hours. It would be a very unequal relationship.
But, it’s all the wider patterns that those comments brought to my attention that are the real issue. She is a toxic, negative, victim-playing drama queen, and I see now that she’s only been draining me and bringing me down. I think I have to stay no contact. I am done. If I e-mail her and try to give explanations, she will just try to drag me back in to her drama.
I was able to block her through other contact methods, but I can’t seem to block her texts and several have gotten through.
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