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Old Feb 25, 2019, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted by rechu View Post
Ugh, now she texted me now asking if I have gotten over being offended. She doesn’t realize that this goes way beyond just how she made me feel with those comments.

I mean those were bad enough. If I had continued being friends with her, I would always be worried that I might be bothering her with my petty problems. And I’m sure she’d still expect me to listen to her problems for hours. It would be a very unequal relationship.

But, it’s all the wider patterns that those comments brought to my attention that are the real issue. She is a toxic, negative, victim-playing drama queen, and I see now that she’s only been draining me and bringing me down. I think I have to stay no contact. I am done. If I e-mail her and try to give explanations, she will just try to drag me back in to her drama.

I was able to block her through other contact methods, but I can’t seem to block her texts and several have gotten through.
Rechu, good for you. Do what you need to to for your own mental health and sanity. NO need for negative drama!!! Absolutely not. I hope you can figure out how to block the texts.