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mckell13 said:
My wants are very...dichotomous and I cannot seem to find a way to fulfill both or find a compromise.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I'm having trouble with a situation like that in my life and have, over the years, taught myself to shift my perspective to eventually get out of that "groove" I've made. I'm not very fast at figuring out just how to shift a particular view but one thing I've noticed is if I think from a different physical place (like sunny, I think it was, moving to a different chair/couch in her T's office and her T moving too?). You might try that? I was telling a T just yesterday how, as a child, I liked to climb up on my bedroom dresser and look at my room from there Different perspective will give a different view?