I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, lokiez It must be very hard for you and for him. The only way to know for sure whether he's manic or not is to go to a doctor and get a proper diagnosis. I'd suggest to talk to his Pdoc about this and see how it goes from there. Hopefully he/she will be able to help you. I completely agree with what tecomsin has already wisely said better than I ever could. Try to see if there are other symptoms of mania. If his counsellor thinks he may have mania then it's definitely worth checking it out. You can have an high IQ in some areas but lacking in some other areas, I believe. But don't rely too much on that number. Each one of us is good at certain things and less so at others. You're a wonderful person. I'm glad you're there to help him. Remember to take care of yourself as well! You can't fully take care of others if you're not taking care of yourself as well. You're a wonderful friend. I wish there were more people like you in this world. I'm sure he's a wonderful person as well. I'm so sorry he's going through all of this. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. I hope things will get better soon for you and for him. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this