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Old Feb 25, 2019, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Laure View Post
Hello

I signed up here because it appears like the best place to ask this. I just wanted some thoughts please if I've done anything wrong. The other day I was at home doing not much and we have had trades-men working on the walls inside the house for a few days because of some damage we had

Basically I'm sure I'm like most women and when I am at home I don't wear a bra. Well my mom arrived home and saw I was not wearing a one under my shirt. I never do when I'm at home coz they're not comfortable but my mom got angry at me and said it was unacceptable for me to be braless when trades-men are here working.

I'd like to know if my mom ova-reacting? I'm not very big up top. And I was wearing a top but just no bra under. So I don't see the problem. Even tho i don't have big boobs, i guess you could say my nipples are not exactly small but Is this a reason why I should wear a bra if anyone is here?

Pretty much my mom said it looks really bad and its not acceptable when trades men are here. Is she ova-reacting?

She used a few words I wont repeat here but they hurt me

Thank you

Really you already know you can decide at home how you dress. I doubt you're naïve to think that it's not noticeable and I'm sure you made that decision yourself. Over reacting? who cares. its your house. Why even bother to consider it. Your thoughts, your values and beliefs are hers and hers are hers. leave it at that and just tell your mom "thanks for the input" and move on from there. This is a very insignificant thing, and you gotta choose your battles.