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"You always go back to this." She looks right at me and says, "We are not strangers anymore." I felt like %#@&#!!
I find myself asking yet again, Why, after 8 months of interacting with this woman, do I still want to believe that she has no interest in me other than that I provide income for her? I
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Only 8 months and you are stressing about this? LOL I think it was about 6 months ago (that would the two year mark with my T) that I told him that he knows so much about me, but the therapeutic relationship makes no sense because all I'm doing is disclosing to a stranger. He suddenly looked very sad and said to me, "We have been working together for two years and you still think of me as a stranger?" That was one of the series of "yikes" moments when I actually started to believe that he might have a slight interest in me other than a business client.
The more we keep our T's at a distance-- believe that they couldn't *really* care about us, the easier it is to accept that one day the relationship will end. Also, if we have never been cared about in this manner before, you are going to have a really difficult time accepting it-- that is normal.
Have you discussed this with her?
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