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Originally Posted by growlycat
Thanks. I did google echoism and I do have a narcissist father. And I am a people pleaser. I’m trying to connect that to my situation with t but not seeing the thread?
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I thought your T sharing more would decrease the chance for the erotic transference, but it does seem to be different with everyone. Some people develop more transference, some less.
My T was rather blank slate, which I think actually (though unintentionally) encouraged my erotic transference since I never had a relationship with my father given he was totally unavailable. So a repetition of my past. (I refer to oedipal complex, but that's just symbolism to having never had a relationship with my father).
Have you identified ways you may be repeating your past?