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Originally Posted by Sisabel
Honestly, I don’t think you any person an explanation for things like why you don’t go to church or even why you need space from them. It sounds like you would like to keep the friendship but at more of a distance. I think whether you block his number or not, he will eventually get that you need your space. Most people do. I am having an issue with boundary setting and I have to balance myself so I don’t go from either allowing someone to be way too much in my space... to blasting them so they go away... it sounds like you’re doing a good job balancing that you want your space and you’re doing it in a kind way. This is what I want to learn to do better. Best of luck and I think it will work out.
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For sure. If I even have to begin to explain myself in the first place, they're just being nosy and prying.
That's the story of a lot of my previous friendships I made in college. Many of them were made before discovering the beauty and relief behind personal boundaries so it's time to redefine my friendship with some people I've met. I've been able to relate your struggles in setting personal boundaries on every level, and you have been able to understand me through-and-through. Thanks as always for replying!
