Ugh, yes! I’ve grown hypersensitive to detecting this from having been taught by receiving this treatment.

How about someone who insults you veiled as humor. Then when you call them on it, they say they are only joking, and tell you that you are too thin skinned, and refuse to stop.

I laid down a boundary with a friend who was doing that. “If you don’t stop doing it, I won’t be your friend anymore.” She didn’t stop. We are no longer friends.