I liked the way Anne put it.

A therapist is a job that has to do with helping people. Textbooks might give a larger frame how to do it in that profession, but the personal touch can be a lot of different things. One thing I don't understand in this board is the willingness to scream "unethical" to other people's therapists when they do something that is "unorthodox" to their own strick standard and image how a therapist should operate. But there are so many ways to Rome.

My T is never "unethical", but often "unorthodox". Thank God.