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Originally Posted by seesaw
I'm not sure where you're quoting me as saying that? However, I have seen that. But I think it's because, as another poster presented in a very helpful link, it is behaviors and relationships that are toxic, not the people. And I couldn't agree more with that. I think there are many people who refer to any person they have any kind of disagreement with or whom they dont like as toxic. It makes the word lose its meaning.
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Yes, I was agreeing with you that we cannot use that label instantly on someone. This is why I stated that it takes time (or something major like confrontation) to determine toxicity. I completely agree with you that merely having a disagreement doesn't make anyone toxic.