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Old Feb 26, 2019, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Blueberrybook View Post
My mom is being prepped for gallbladder removal surgery. She ended up going to the ER after 3 days of bad stomach pain (stubborn). She ended up with a gallstone ending up in a bile duct, clogging the duct. They are removing her gallbladder but think she may have passed the gallstone; they will assess during this surgery whether she will need another.

I so hate myself for having panic attacks and anxiety driving on busy roads and freeways. She is at a hospital roughly an hour's drive away, but on the worst and busiest freeways off the Houston metro area, and I just can't drive it to be there right now Both my sisters are driving out to help, one doing a long drive from the Dallas area, anywhere from a 4-6 hr. drive, that entire route tends to be busy these days.

Anxious now about the surgery.
I am sorry to hear about your mom needing surgery, but hope it goes smoothly and she recovers quickly. It must be hard not to be able to be there. Try to offer yourself some self compassion. At the moment, it is where you are and hating yourself not being able to make the drive will only make you feel worse.
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TheSeaCat