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krazibean said:
I think its because the session was so BORING. we were not connected at all.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">krazibean, your comment about the sesion being boring is very interesting to me. You attribute the boring to the lack of connection. I think that's really insightful. I recently had a larger meeting of 4 that included my T, and my immediate feeling afterwards was that it had been very boring. Maybe this was because I didn't feel connected to T in that meeting (he was not serving as my T so we weren't trying to be connected in that special one on one therapeutic way). I want to thank you for that insight.

Anyway, maybe your saying your session was boring was just a way of saying you wanted to be connected. I think that's OK! We can't be 100% connected every single time. It was also interesting how you answered your T's questions--nodding, staring, putting your head down, giving brief answers such as "no." When I look at that, it seems you didn't want connection. And then you left without a hug. What's going on?