T initiated after we had been working together for a while. She asked me a few times if she could give me a hug and I always said yes. After a few times we just hugged at the end of each appointment.

With Emdr Tthe first few appointments she shook my hand. Then it stoppedwhich was fine with me. Then a few months ago as my appointment was ending she mentioned that we had talked at the previous appointment about hugging and so she gave me a hug. It was awkward because in my head I was thinking about that we had never discussed hugging she obviously had me confused with another client. Then the next we she gave me a hug again which again was awkward because I want expecting it. I was wondering who she had me mixed up with. It hasn't happened since. We have never discussed it. When I leave my appointments I long for Ts hugs. So I know she is open to hugs and think about bringing up the topic, but I am afraid of getting to close to her and becoming attached.

I brought up that if I disasociate one of the ways to bring me back is through touch as it worked with T. We discussed it and agreed she would tell me she was going to. That hasn't happened yet.