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Originally Posted by healinginprogress
She instinctively reached for me but stopped herself which lead to a discussion about how I would welcome touch from her. Which lead to her offering hugs and now she may offer occasionally but I take the lead more often in asking.
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Mine reached out to me when I was really upset but because I startle easily and don't like sudden touch I instinctively and very quickly backed away, which freaked us both out. I think if I had been more prepared a part of me would have appreciated a hug but it was just a habitual reaction and tbh another part of me is worried about getting too close to her because of my feelings towards her so I have not asked for hugs.