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Old Feb 28, 2019, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Swvrf View Post
Just discovered last October my husband of 33 yrs has been doing the following; Found on his digital camera pictures from porn magazines. Then I discovered he is using porn sites, checking out hook up sites. And to finish it off I found a large brown envelope of photographs, over 200 hundred, of myself sleeping naked in bed, shower etc all without my knowledge. They date back to 2007. I feel betrayed, invaded, totally creeped out. My heart is broken and I no longer trust my husband. So his responses have been, all men look at porn. He took pictures of pictures because he was throwing out the magazines and wanted to keep his favorite pics. He says he has never been on a hook up site, his history on his phone says otherwise. And the pics of me is because the last SD card of my naked pics of me was deleted by mistake so he started to print them out. Presently I have a SD card with over 700 naked pics/ video of me. He says he's sorry in one breath and the next he is implying there is nothing wrong. How do we survive this?
I'm sorry that this has happened to you! Nobody should ever be in a situation like this. I would look in a trauma specialized in abuse. I would look into counseling for addiction to porn.
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Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky, Swvrf