I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Swvrf It must be terrible for you. I'm so sorry. I completely agree with what divine1966 has already wisely said better than I ever could. Leave this man as soon as you can. What he did was horrible. I don't think I would ever be able to trust him again either. Not to mention he didn't even apologize! I don't think you need to waste anymore time with him, Try to get away from him as soon as you can. You deserve so much better. I'm so sorry. It must be veru hard for you. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this