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Old Mar 01, 2019, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Doglover6335 View Post
I do have parents that could help me, but I am afraid they will mock me for it. I don’t want to be the family joke that’s judged by everyone for having a ruined marriage already. They told me not to get married if I was not serious and sure this was what I wanted, and now I know they will see this as me giving up.
Bottom line...even if they would mock you (which in REALITY is highly unlikely)....which is worse? Being emotionally abused for the rest of your married life (or maybe until he actually leaves you anyway).

Sometimes we blow it & don't understand the red flags that are smacking us in the face before the wedding because we have no idea how the consequences are going to play out in real life. When we actually see it we need to take action, not make excuses for their behavior & especially not accept blame of their behavior on us.
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