I am really quite sorry about this all. Hearing it is most upsetting. With all due respect, this is a deal breaker in my book. It is unforgivable and I would be making some sort of plan to exit the situation. You even have a valid reason to go to the police and authorities. Seriously.

You owe yourself so much better than this. Treat yourself as the worthwhile important person you are and remove this trash from your life.