It's not saying there are not more important things, but I just don't see what is offensive about a man placing looks on the top of a list of what he might like in a woman. I could see it being offensive if the topic was, "what do you look for if you are going to hire a woman" but the topic is "what do you like in a woman"-- I would assume that means if you were to consider being with a woman as a partner. That's not technically a judgement of someone, it's what you would look for in a partner-- I know I would want to be physically attracted to my partner. I picked my husband for a lot of reasons, but looks (and hair) was definitely up there.