Um, it's not cool to make jokes about anybody's appearance, race, ethnicity, or anything like that. I'm really sorry you feel that way, but in no way did I ever insinuate that it was okay. I guess you felt that since attractiveness is important to me, that I look down on people who are overweight or something? I tend to think people are all beautiful in some way. It doesn't have to be the body or the hair-- it can be a great smile, an amazing personality, a wonderful sense of humor. I was simply stating that looks are important to me when selecting a partner. Looks, intellect, creativity, sense of humor, and a million other things. Again, my personal opinion. Not an attack on anyone.