Having a real communication problem in my relationship with my boyfriend. We made concrete plans which he always follows through..but then he will attempt to see me an extra day and I will tell him to let me know later if he’s up to it. Last time, he wanted to get together then later he wasn’t up to it. Ever since he started this new job he has been behaving this way. So the past 2-weeks. So tonight he was being vague when I asked if he still wants to get together. He was telling me probably not and then he stopped replying to my texts leaving me hanging. I don’t know if he doesn’t want to say no, afraid I’ll reacf badly, feels guilty or what...we had an understanding that he would just be direct. I’m starting to feel that maybe I’m just being too available to him. Before he would initiate plans, but lately I have been..thoughts?