I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Gymgirl71 I completely agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could. Just try to give him some space if you can. It seems like he needs his own time. Just try to focus on yourself a bit. Perhaps you coul try to spend some more time with your friends or family. That's perfectly normal. I'm sure your relationship will get better if you pull off a bit. If there are other problems with this relatonship, feel free to share and talk about it here. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this