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Old Mar 03, 2019, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71 View Post
yes I get that..it’s not him, It’s me. I think I can come across as too needy..I literally think I become way too focused on the relationship and not focused enough on me. He has actually been supportive in all aspects of my life but I start to loose focus when things don’t go my way it seems.
It’s not what I am saying. Your expectations are reasonable. He doesn’t come across very interested in maintaining regular communication and keeping relationship going and you trying to get him be more into it, it is just frustrating for you. You can do better than this guy. You can’t change people. Don’t waste your time. He might be a nice guy, he just isn’t as invested
Thanks for this!
Middlemarcher, Molinit