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He will be changing his job soon and asked me to move out of the city we live in together. For now I am saying to just wait, see where he will land and then we will discuss what are the next steps.
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I think that you are very wise to wait.
I would not make a major commitment like that, moving out of your city, right now.
It's great that he started therapy but it has only been a few weeks. That is not nearly enough, in my opinion, to consider uprooting yourself for him.
Always be wary when a guy wants to uproot you, isolate you from your regular life and support.
I also would not go visit his parents at this time. You have not had a long enough, stable enough relationship (in my opinion) to be taking that step.
Always be wary when a guy wants to rush things.
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If they want to work on themselves, if they realize their issues maybe through hard work you can deal with that?
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You mentioned a tiny light at the end of the tunnel.
In my opinion, that is just a
tiny start. You need (in my opinion) more, much more, to have confidence that he has changed and grown.
My advice is to be out of the tunnel
entirely before you even consider turning your life upside down for this guy. Permanent change through psychotherapy takes time, a lot of time. Don't let him persuade you otherwise. Make certain that he is permanently out of the tunnel.