I think the problem is they are asking what guys want in a woman before they have met. Most women probably want (insert hot celebrity guy types name here) as one of their wants but in the end thats not the be all end all. Ive seen some very attractive women seem ugly once you meet them and some i didnt give a second look to seem much more attractive. Plus a lot of them said intelligence as well which is one of those subjective things, just like weight. Id want an intelligent girlfriend but if she was einstein smart and everything was over my head id just end up feeling dumb

In the womens section and in the mens section some said they didnt like cry baby men which made me cringe too. Id give anything not to be the way i am as well. I heard somewhere "laugh and the world laughs with you:cry and the world laughs at you". It isnt always true but it was funny in its own way.

In the end i guess the only real answer is it doesnt matter what the majority of either sex wants in a partner, it only matters that there are some that look past what you feel insecure about be it crying or weight or whatever.