[QUOTE=Bill3;6456431]I think that you are very wise to wait.

I would not make a major commitment like that, moving out of your city, right now.

It's great that he started therapy but it has only been a few weeks. That is not nearly enough, in my opinion, to consider uprooting yourself for him.

Always be wary when a guy wants to uproot you, isolate you from your regular life and support.

I think he does not want to "uproot" me as I have mentioned, none of us in this country has "roots" and I am pretty independent, I live my life changing

I think he does not want to "uproot" me. I am pretty independent and I love changing jobs/enviroment/cities/countries. He knows that. The situation is changing because of his job. He tries to show me he is super serious about us and the future. Do not think he tries to take over my life.

Same with his parents - he is not rushing, he is proving me that he is very serious about making us work.

Sorry If my posts are so chaotic, that is the way my brain works.