I used to dress up for my old T, I guess I spent a lot of time looking just right, so he would fall in love with me, which he did, but it wasn't probably the clothes. But boy do I regret all the time I spent getting ready for my appointment.

But now for therapy with my new T, I wear what is comfortable, usually no makeup and sometime I shower the night before. I just cry the makeup off anyway. But this time I am spending time on ME healing, being myself and I don't waste time trying to look good for my T. No need for masks for this old geezer. lol

But you know since I fired my last T, I sure have a lot more time to work on the important stuff and I am making a lot more progress on myself since I am not obsessing over my old T. Thank goodness I am over that emotional roller coaster. I think in a way that obsession was a way of avoiding the real stuff in therapy. But now I show up in whatever I feel like at the time, so I am comfortable, but I have no need to impress my new T.