The problem is that it never really gets to the hanging out part. I usually associate with people through work or meet-up type groups. On occasion, I'm invited to something outside of that. There never seems to be enough consistency to build any sort of relationship. At least for me. The other people seem to become great friends with everyone else in the group and I'm sort of just left out.

It also seems dangerous to me to develop any amount of emotional intimacy with someone as I usually start wanting a romantic relationship with them. I guess I want a partner as much as if not more than just a platonic best friend. I mean, I'm not sure how else to get needs for touch, affection, and close emotional intimacy than with a partner.