I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, toughbird Thank you so much for sharing your story here on PC. I agree that it's pretty confusing. Perhaps this person needs to work on himself. I agree that perhaps you should cut off contacts with him. It seems like you've already gave him several chances. I'm so sorry. Sometimes friendship can be confusing. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you're going through all of this