I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Sisabel I don't think it's rude at all to set boundaries for yourself. Although I understand why you'd be worried for their baby. But I think you need to take some time for yourself. I think you're actually in a position of semi-power right now. They still need you to take care of the baby, otherwise they wouldn't be asking that to you. I think you have every right to refuse if you don't feel like it. Just try to set some boundaries. Tell them that you can take the baby once a week, or twice a month. Whathever suits you. Make them understand that you have your own schedule they have to respect. I think it's important to do this. Otherwise they'll just keep using you. Try to keep an eye on them if you think they're drinking, although of course you can't force them to do something they don't want to. I'm so sorry things aren't going so well with your daughter. Sometimes it happens. It's not your fault. It seems like you're trying your best to make things up with her. But this kind of thing takes two people and it doesn't seem like she's interested. Take care of yourself. Remember that you've already done everything you could to make things up with her. That's what's important. I'm so sorry. I know it's not easy. I hope you'll still be able to see the baby sometimes. After all, you're still her mother. I believe you have every right to see him after all. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this