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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You brought up the drinking sisabel because it's not healthy. Your daughter knows this but has decided to turn a blind eye, even be an enabler.
I hope you are right in that while there is a problem they are so far being careful. You can't change your daughter's choices, but you can set boundaries. It's not always easy as you are finding out, yet, it's important you have boundaries otherwise you will face being used and walked all over, this much you know through experience.   |
Thank you for the reassurance. My counselor says the same thing it’s just taking me time to emotionally process it. It’s a sad feeling when your own child doesn’t like you and they only see you as somebody who can buy things for you or cater to you when it’s convenient. Yes, you’re right, I do see potential for some issues to unfold with my daughter and her H in the future. I used to worry a lot about it all and now I just want to mind my own business. It’s all easier said than done.