Hi Lovebird......

Just wanted to say that I understand what you are saying and I too am a little appalled at the thought that a lot of men seem to put LOOKS at the top of their list.... and while looks are nice - they will fade, then what is the guy left with? - hopefully not a search for a better looking female to replace the one that lost her looks over time with age.

VENT away as YOU need...... I am here listening & understanding.