Awwee September, I am sorry you are so frustrated. If DH wants the petting zoo so much why is the effort all yours. I always say people should follow their dreams. But dont they do the leg work too? If you have great plans why not follow through. Let DH make his own! If DH has a way to make money for his zoo let him. I am sorry you feel your plans are not important. Luckily you are a smart woman and you know your ideas are good, so go for it woman. I hope things get better for you.