56 is way too young to decide you'll be alone for the rest of your life. You could live another 40 years...
I'm 49 and have been divorced for 4 years. I've had a few casual relationships that didn't amount to anything. I've become very independent now and I am pursuing things I want - but I am very open to a partner. I guess I am not waiting for one though. I remember coming out of a 20 year marriage where I couldn't focus on myself at all. My ex was like a big baby, needed constant attention and got resentful if I did anything for myself. I am now in my second semester of grad school, pursuing an MBA. I also work and have 3 kids. But I still hope to have a partner some day. Go about your everyday life and don't think about whether you will or won't be with someone.
A guy that I know was married for 33 years and never thought he would find love again, he wasn't looking. He met a woman though who was 10 years younger than him, and she didn't have children. They ended up getting married and had a boy, who is now 20. So you just never know. He never planned on dating again but life happens.
Good luck to you!
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Originally Posted by Dallas Loner
I lost my wife of 27 years September 2017. A few months later I met a lady, and thought we'd be together forever. Lately, however. issues have arisen, and we are breaking up.
I've come to the conclusion I'm not good material for a relationship. So, at 56, I'm looking at living the rest of my life alone, without a mate.
I'd like input as to how I can make the most of the rest of my life, and what gotchas to look out for. I've always had someone, so this is new territory.
Thanks.
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