I just had a question for men only. I think only men can post here, but Im not sure. I have a hairy back and chest and when dating its become an issue that needs to be disclosed almost as though it was serious enough to be an STD or SD. I tried online dating forums and a lot of men have problems with relationships due to body hair. I never considered it that big of a problem, but from Womens reactions Im getting the impression its a serious issue. Some men on other sites have told me they shave their own chest and their wife shaves their back, or their spouse is ok with hair and its not an issue. But what do you do before you get married, and youre still dating?