There is nothing wrong with crying, male or female!! What is really bad is holding it all inside, withdrawing, and all the crap that comes along with that. My son has cried as an adult when he is deeply upset, and my husband holds too much in, has cried maybe three times in 31 years, and holds way too much in. He was raised to think that crying is weakness. What a bunch of bologna!! I taught my son to let it out, it is o.k.