Miss Charlotte, If someone had said to me I deny my anger I'd have called them a liar, I feel i've always found other things to be angry instead of looking at where the anger is really coming from...I sit here telling myself its just a feeling....unyet it feels more then just a feeling....it feels like something that brings nothing but negative painful consequences...it brings other peoples rejections and anger...it brings with it not being heard..it brings having your life laid out in front of you as an accusation......unyet its just a feeling inside of me....is it my fantasys that create the monster in the anger?.....what if I treat it as a friend?....perhaps thats the answer....