Maybe nobody has anything further to add?

You're right because first and foremost this is a support forum ... not a debating forum or a clinic. DocJohn has explained that repeatedly. No matter how much we *might* think we're correct, we don't know each other in real life and aren't there to pick up the pieces (or worse).

I know it's hard sometimes. I often have several tabs open, and have on occasion slapped Ctrl+Q then gone for a walk to get some emotional distance.

Thank you Calla lily.