I think you are listening with you heart more than your mind. Cheating thoughts and behaviour are tearing apart families, marriages, and people. It's costs are HUGE in emtional pain to wives, husbands, children. The only ones who win are lawyers and judges. Hollywood makes "affairs" romantic. They are not. They are a HUGE cause of misery. Please think with your mind... be part of the solution, set a good example.

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but rising every time we fall." Confucius