Try to hang on, Bowdent. I'm sure you'll be able to get through this. You're a wonderful person. I'm so sorry you've had to put up with your wife for so long. But at least you know better now. I hope you'll be able to get away from her as soon as you can. I hope your children will be ok in all of this as well. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this