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Originally Posted by June Gloom
yet every time I get close to somebody i do something stupid or push them away by being controlling or not picking up on something social related.
How can I stop this before I have to go out into the real world as an adult and end up alone forever?
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You seem to be self-aware and self-observant. I think your willingness to take responsibility (rather than blaming others for everything) and your openness in exploring avenues for change is a great first step.
Can you explore these avenues with a therapist? Until then, you can take it slow by not getting too close to someone new (but just sticking with the people you already feel safe with).
Good luck!!