Thank you, Tishie.

I am not backing down. Attractiveness is NOT determined by what a person looks like, and you'll never catch me choosing a handsome man just because he's handsome, or turning away a man who is not handsome, just because he's not. I do not believe in judging a person's value by looks, no matter how anyone sugarcoats it.

And yes, placing it at the top of the list is repulsive. It means, "Physical attractiveness is more important than anything else." And that is a thoroughly shallow, judgmental attitude that I for one outgrew by the time I was in second grade.